Self-pity

People often feel this emotion when they think that others could not possibly understand what they're going through. They feel like they've been dealt a life filled with sorrow and that there's nothing that could possibly change that. Yet for us Christians, I hope we remind ourselves constantly that we're never alone in our trials and misfortunes. That we actually do have someone who can understand what we're going through. Self-pity is usually described as an of pitying oneself, especially in an exaggerated or self-indulgent manner.

The bible has a great deal to say about it too. In its simplest statement, I would say that the bible would tell us to be really careful about this emotion. It makes us feel hollow and lonely in our soul and we get a sense that even God has left us. We can get a sense of feeling that not only our friends or family can't understand what we're going through, but even that God can't fully sympathize with our needs and our tremendous hurt in life. Our focus shifts from God's love and care for us to our struggles alone. It is a very dangerous place in a Christian's life. One can easily fall into temptations, especially a leader. So I hope we learn to see the bigger picture in our life. That we're not the only ones who endure sadness or sorrow. That there are others who've been where we have been. And above all, God does understand you. Keep hoping in the God who created you in a fearful and wonderful manner. He'll always love you and He puts you through trials and tribulations only so that you may be conformed more and more to the image of His Son, Jesus Christ (Rom 8:28-29).

Romans 5:3 - More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance(perseverance).

1 Corinthians 10:13 - No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.

Philippians 4:6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.

Mathew 11:28-30 - Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”

Keep smiling, keep reading, and keep praying.
God bless =)